Here's something FUN to do on a rainy day! Take a free personality temperament test. The two most popular measures of personality type are the Kiersey and Myers-Briggs tests.
Both take only only a few minutes and offer short explanations to help you understand your results. I am INFJ in the Myers-Briggs scheme and (consistent with that result) an "Idealist" in the Kiersey test. That explains a LOT about me! What is your temperament type?
There are no "right" or "wrong" temperament types! But there are complementary temperament types that can make a marriage or partnership stronger and more vibrant.