Polarized!
Matthew 10:36 - A man's enemies will be in his own home.
As long as I was a wishy-washy Christian, everyone in my family got along with me just fine. But when I decided to truly put God first, the whole atmosphere of our home suddenly changed. And most of my family were against me. I asked the Lord to explain what was going on.
Once you made a decision, it forced everyone else to do the same.
Why aren't they interested in pursuing a deeper relationship with You?
They have as much of Me as they want.
"Why are they afraid (to go after more of You)?"
It's not that they're afraid; it's that they are unwilling. Because every time you take a step closer to God there's always something in your life that you have to let go of or change.